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If u don’t wanna wear earrings then don’t. It’s your choice not hers

Don't let your family make you do things that make you uncomfortable. You are who you are, what bothers you bothers you. So what not wearing them makes you look gay as heck according to your family? that's a good thing, and you should let them know that.

smh sadly it aint as easy, they say that basically because I'm still a minor i still have to do what they told me-

Minor or not you still have rights, you don't need to put stuff in your ears. It isn't improving your health in anyway, its bothering you. Even if you're a child you should still make sure they know you are you and you aren't going anywhere.

i grew up with a black family so like try to tell them you ain't gonna do it is a one way ticket to the belt- my mom is more easy with it its more just my grandmother-

you should explain to somebody you trust then, you don't deserve this sort of treatment for being uncomfortable

i mean i do tell my teachers but not much they can do so I just sit by and wait til my mom is able to get her own house

Just wake up one day looking hella gay and walk around wearing it until she stops bothering you.
Thats what I would do :>

that seems valid

lol

I honestly don't see how wearing earrings or not has any bearing on your sexuality???? That just sounds like a strange misconception she has. And yeah it does seem a little homophobic. If I were in your situation I would probably just tell her that I don't like to wear earrings, but you already said that she would get mad at you for it so I'm really not sure sorry. Also no offense but the yellow outline font took me like a minute and a half to read lol

its fine- it was the preset and now just this morning shes saying that if she met a trans person she wouldn't respect their pronouns because its a phrase and it doesn't exist and its a mental issue

She may be why don’t you ask her?

ask my grandmother if shes homophobic will get me kicked out-

Hmmm idk then

Ask

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Yellow, as a font color, is awful and hard to read. Never use it again. That's my opinion.

Humor aside, a lot of old people are going to be lowkey-homophobic. Just tell her your reason for not wearing them is because they hurt and you don't like them. They're your ears.

i try to but y e a

That's dumb, Earring don't make ANYONE look lesbian or straight
It's just a choice of fashion

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Nah she isn’t homophobic she just is old and has other ideas and views because she grew up in a different time and if you don’t want earrings then f**k what other people say and don’t wear em.

i mean shes only 54- but then again genx-

Meh