2 of my main friends in a nutshell, why can't I know more ppl like them and why cant i know them irl T-T

YOU MEET SOMEONE AND THEY'RE ACTUALLY NICE; THEY LIKE THE SAME STUFF YOU DO; THEY GO THROUGH SIMILAR PAIN; THEY ACTUALLY LIKE YOU WHEN YOU GET REALLY PASSIONATE ABOUT YOUR HOBBIES AND ENCOURAGE YOU TO TALK ABOUT THINGS THAT PEOPLE USUALLY DON'T CARE ABOUT