"As in so many areas of our society, divisions are drawn in black and white; there are no shades of gray. Homophobia is countered by heterophobia; the empty answer to gay-bashing is a vow to bash back. There are sadder developments in American life, I suppose, but for the moment, I can't think of one."
— Pete Hamill, Esquire, August 1990
1990 would be the original OFFICIAL definition as it came first. 2021 can't apply because the word was around long before this year. We need the original, Real, Official definition.