LASHING OUT AT OTHERS AS A DEFENSE MECHANISM TO AVOID ALLOWING MYSELF TO EXPRESS NEGATIVE EMOTIONS IN A CONSTRUCTIVE AND PROPER MANNER BECAUSE I GREW UP IN A LIFE IN WHICH LIMITING MY EMOTIONS AND THINKING LOGICALLY WAS A MATTER OF LIFE AND DEATH AND NOW THAT I AM LIVING AS A HUSBAND AND SETTLED DOWN WITH A WIFE I AM HAVING DIFFICULTIES ACCLIMATING TO THIS NEW ENVIRONMENT THAT PROMOTES EMOTIONAL EXPRESSION. MMMH HITTING WOMEN