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I did not know where else to go for advice. | He repeatedly screamed curse words at me and I had to ask her to tell him to stop insulting me. I feel like I have already failed at love and am now stuck with self-doubt. I feel as though it is my fault she is sad. Does anyone know how to handle this situation? Well, I got a girlfriend today and I am already left wondering if Love is really for me. I feel as though I have caused a fight while trying to protect her. Now I believe her best friend hates me. | made w/ Imgflip meme maker
343 views 25 upvotes Made by anonymous 5 years ago in LGBTQ
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I believe he is just homophobic or jealous.
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I do not need advice from him. I need advice on how to comfort her...

I am a very cold person. Kindness is not my field. How can I show her that I love her and comfort her?
1 up, 5y
Oh.

If she is feeling sad
-Leave her alone (if she wants you to)
Or
-Stay with her (if she wants you to)
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If she is happy
-Make a note of what made her happy and if you can't figure out what did it's probably you that made her happy.
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If she is hurt
-Help her wounds heal ex. Broken arm you could help her write or help her eat or even bring her flowers and snacks or other things she likes.

Maybe the only comfort she needs is you.

I can't really tell you how to comfort her exactly because people are different.

It's up to you to find out what makes her happy and what makes her sad.
0 ups, 5y
hopefully that helped :)
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0 ups, 5y,
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Who is the person because I could maybe help?
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0 ups, 5y,
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I would rather not say any names. He is respectable and does not deserve to be involved.
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0 ups, 5y
Oh alright then. I'm not sure if I can help out with your situation then but when my boyfriend is getting down on himself I just tell him I love him genuinly and I truly care about him if that helps anything.
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0 ups, 5y
Dont worry im pretty sure she is upset since her best friend doesnt like you and that you got sworn at. you can try comforting her as im sure a few people have said.

(i dunno how to comfort people so srryyy)
0 ups, 5y
Grab a rope and a hang it up
0 ups, 5y,
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fun little idea
return to sender
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0 ups, 5y,
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I am not stupid enough to involve myself in such a waste of time.
0 ups, 5y
Understandable,
Just don't respond and walk away, and don't give them the satisfaction they want.
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He repeatedly screamed curse words at me and I had to ask her to tell him to stop insulting me. I feel like I have already failed at love and am now stuck with self-doubt. I feel as though it is my fault she is sad. Does anyone know how to handle this situation? Well, I got a girlfriend today and I am already left wondering if Love is really for me. I feel as though I have caused a fight while trying to protect her. Now I believe her best friend hates me.