Depends if they are homophobic or accepting. Before coming out (as demisexual and grey panromantic), I knew my dad was (still is) homophobic but I wasn’t sure about my mom. I had a feeling she’d be more accepting than him though, and I was right. She actually knew before I knew.

If you know one parent may be more accepting than the other, come out to both simultaneously. I wish I had that opportunity (parents don’t live together), and if I didn’t come out separately, perhaps my dad wouldn’t have rejected me.

If you have the opportunity to come out to both parents simultaneously, take it. That’s only if both parents aren’t homophobic. If they are, then maybe you shouldn’t come out. Someone who isn’t homophobic should be in the room so they can influence the others, in short.

Thanks

well honestly
make sure they are homophobes and that the don't have a problem with people of the LGBTQ+
community
trust me that is very important cuz I've made that mistake and it got pretty bad

How do I figure that out without being super obvious

idk

Well first, always be honest with your parents.

Do you think they'll accept?

Mabey

You should first ask their opinion on the LGBTQ+ community. Ask them questions like: "how would you react if someone you know was [insert sexual/romantic orientation or gender identitey here]?". You really don't want to be kicked out of the house.