Somewhat old but I'm still much the same

I have a trans friend, Amber is what she wants to be called, and I kept mixing up her pronouns and calling her Paul (birth name), so I'm starting to have it stored in my brain to get things right. Not a transphobe, just confused as heck.

Yeah, sometimes that gets confusing. Same with my friend, he changed his name (but he isn’t in the lgbtq) and i keep accidentally calling him by his old name ;-;