What if the suggestion made was not one that was being forcefully implied that would help the individual that it was being suggested to? I could hardly see that being oppressive. That's like your office full of co-workers all buying you a gift basket of hygiene products the saying nothing but leaving it on your desk versus each of them individually coming up to you and telling you that you smell like crap. Or group of people collectively agree that it is wrong to kick a baby in the face I wouldn't say that is impressive. But I would say that that is a group that is suggested that people did not know any different do not kick a baby in the face if that makes sense.