I recently became friend with a male who's also gay. We started talking about the things that turns us on (which was why he started talking to me because I posted that "What Turns You On?" image in the NSFW section of a student run college Discord server) and we were actually vibing with each other over our kinks. I kinda have feelings for this guy, but I don't want to trust these feelings yet because I don't know if he would feel the same way about me. On the bright side, it gave me some hope to move on from the guy related to that drama-filled crisis.