hi !! just a reminder that you don't need to be out (online or irl) to be valid. especially if your family/friends/etc. are homophobic or transphobic and coming out would endanger you. just because people don't know your sexuality doesn't make it any less valid. your validity isn't dependent on other peoples opinions. if you don't feel safe coming out please don't just because random people say you aren't valid otherwise. your safety will always be more important than others opinions.and remember, you are beautiful and loved no matter what !! have a great day :]