my dad was always the one who stuck up for me when i got in trouble with my mom because there was a piece of trash on the ground i didn't pick uo my dad would be like IT'S A PIECE OF TRASH ARE YOU REALLY GONNA HOUND ON HIM OVER SOME DAMN TRASH and i would just watch them argue and if my grandma was around she would always have my back when i was sad she always tried to help me with whatever was troubling me she was the best