Japanese people have it down at as an art form.
When I was a kid a boy I was. Every single time I was accused of stuff and my mother would eat the hell out of me keep on slapping me in the face and abusing me. And should always ask why. And I wouldn't know why I didn't understand why what are you trying to look for. No apology would work on her. But over the course of years of abuse eventually I was about 18 years old and well I finally snapped, and I grabbed her by the neck and I slammed her at the door and started banging her head off the door constantly and suffocating her. All I could see was nothing more then bloody murder. The only reason I stopped would because a little tiny tickle in the back of my head said you'll go to jail if you do it.
What happened next well bold and behold she never once hit me again she was terrified of me.
Moral of the story is don't abused your children or they will end up killing you. In the worst case scenario