My family said no

yes.

I have my house (hufflepuff) as my phone background. My dad saw one that said patience. They started poking fun at me saying I'm not patience at all. Then they started saying how lazy I am and how I'm a hypocrite

I think you may fit the other hufflepuff traits

I try to anyway

Well here’s what I do: when my family tells me that I’m a hypocrite, I list all the times that they were a hypocrite and tell them that they’re the ones being hypocritical

W o w

Not the best idea but it works

Fair