"AS WE WERE SAYING, IF YOU ARE SETTING OUT TO BE JOYFUL YOU ARE NOT GOING TO END UP BEING JOYFUL. YOU'RE GOING TO FIND YOURSELF TURNED IN ON YOURSELF. IT'S LIKE A FLOWER. YOU OPEN, YOU BLOSSOM, REALLY BECAUSE OF OTHER PEOPLE. AND I THINK SOME SUFFERING, MAYBE EVEN INTENSE SUFFERING, IS A NECESSARY INGREDIENT FOR LIFE, CERTAINLY DEVELOPING COMPASSION."; - ARCHBISHOP, DESMOND TUTU FROM "THE BOOK OF JOY"