COME UP WITH A GOOD IDEA FOR A COMEBACK RIGHT DURING THE ARGUMENT AND USE IT; DO THE ABOVE BUT YOU REALIZE HOW DUMB IT IS FIVE MINUTES LATER; COME UP WITH THE COMEBACK FIVE MINUTES LATER AND USE IT; COME UP WITH THE COMEBACK IN THE SHOWER, SPRINT INTO THE ROOM OF WHOEVER YOU WERE ARGUING WITH WHILE JUST WEARING A TOWEL AND USE IT WITHOUT REALIZING IT'S BEEN A MONTH SINCE YOU FOUGHT