But I don't want you to. If anyone was to leave it'd be me. I have an abusive dad, homophobic and transphobic stepdad and sister, transphobic mom, horrible friends, no connection to the town at all, and there's nothing to do. You don't need to risk your safety for me. You have a supportive, and very nice, family. (At least from my experience.) I'd much rather I go than you. If I came out my family would probably gladly let me leave.