yeah....that makes a lot of sense....I WANT to help people because that's what I'm good at and doing it makes me feel useful but not a lot of people know that, so they go to everyone else who have enough going on already and don't need that extra added stress. The only problem is tho that if i say i want to help people and give advice I feel like I'm going to end up getting overwhelmed and stressed about just how many people are asking for help