Pansexual though I'd say I lean towards gay? if on a spectrum 80% preference for same sex? I've been with different genders and like them too but just lean towards same sex mostly..
Headache time... however like in a specific scenario of coming out to my parents for example I just say I'm gay because the details aren't relevant to them (they grew up in Communist China under Mao's dictatorship and didn't have real sex ed, so homosexuality is still kinda hard for them to wrap their heads around in the first place, let alone the range of orientations and genders. I tried to come out twice and they still didn't get it so I guess I'm still closeted to them 😂)
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