ask her if shes a friend of dorothy, friend of mara, listens to songs by the neighborhood, knows what the significance of october is (not halloween). those are like things to ask people if they are queer and if she understands shes queer. if she doesnt understand, she is MOST LIKELY straight. if she is queer, just start hanging out with her a lot and eventually start to drop hints like laughing at all her jokes even if they aren't funny, sending her links to songs such as these: https://open.spotify.com/track/45h4w81P5iJJTSeR0jJUQ8?si=1kY1GKYETRmWLlNLPPOjww or https://open.spotify.com/track/3UHssnTchAYbTiLrpRXd3a?si=iSs5yWJTReO4BIp6mypixQ Also, you can FaceTime her and if you have a pride flag MAKE SURE ITS IN THE BACKGROUND WHILE YOU FACETIME and also text her a lot.