I know nothing about anyone in this situation, so I can't answer.
I need to know more about these people (including you) in this situation in order to give you advice.
go back to my toxic ex who makes me want to kermit sewerside sometimes but is really amazing and really attractive and lowke a good person but doesnt love me and never has; date the female i like who is 100% healthy and wont manipulate me, invalidate my emotions, hurt me, and she will give me all her love and affection unconditionally; ME