How do I tell my family I'm queer?

That's completely ok. I've been trying to find my gender but the more I read and think about it the more confused I get. Every definition has some detail in it that feels off. So, I'm just sticking to non-binary now. Struggling to find your label can take a long time and be difficult and it's totally ok to take your time and stick to something vague like queer. Hakuna Matata. 😉

I was telling my dad that I was going to tell him something important soon, but he kinda forced me to spill it.
He still loves me :) I just need to tell my mom

That's great to hear. 😊 I'm very happy for you.