I agree with you to a certain extent, for example if someone feels bullied or picked on and their feeling are hurt - its very difficult to tell here unless insults start flying. Try looking at it from another perspective, like you saw someone driving the wrong way down a one way street, wouldn't you want them to know they are heading the wrong way? I feel like some folks are so invested in driving the wrong way they are totally immune from anyone telling them otherwise, and would rather have an accident than admit they were wrong.