Where the rubber meets the road on Aptop-Lay; Any similarity to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events, is purely coincidental. -Kinks are fine. Different "strokes" for different folks. -Recreational drug use is a choice of the user not his parents; -Sexual acts with minors or nieces is NOT ok; -Doing illegal drugs in front of minors is not ok; -A father's knowledge of a son's drug addiction is relevant is the father claims he can fix the opioid crisis yet acted as an enabler for his son; -A father's covering for his son's illicit drug use is relevant if he wrote a crime bill that locked up a generation of black fathers for possession offenses; -A father's knowledge and silence about child endangerment by his son is relevant to character; -The existence of blackmail material on an elected official is absolutely relevant; -A pay for play scheme is absolutely fair game and relevant; NOT RUSSIAN DISINFORMATION