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Ofc!

Awesome!!!! Congrats!!!! 😁

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No problem!!!!

wait, so u like only non binaries?

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I'm still attracted to men.

I'm sorry if this opens a whole new can of worms, but do you still consider yourself gay because you're attracted to the sex "male" rather than the gender "male"? Or do you still feel like you're a bit closer to male so it feels like it's still the same "side" of the spectrum even though you're not male in the binary sense? I hope this doesn't come off as rude - I'm just genuinely interested. I don't know many non-binary people who aren't ace or pan. I just want to know why so few non-binaries who do have a preference still use the terms gay and straight rather than androphile (liking boys/men) and gynophile (liking girls/women). One reason could be that those words are still not very widely known but there might also be many more (all very valid) reasons to use gay and straight instead. Again, sorry if this sounds offensive - I'm not trying to tell you you're wrong in calling yourself gay or anything like that. If you feel that gay represents you best then you absolutely are gay. Don't let anyone, especially me, tell you otherwise. 😉

I never knew those terms existed. I'm more attracted to the sex "male" than the gender "male". And you're not being offensive in any way. I appreciate your feedback.

Ok, thank you. That's what I thought but I don't want to be the guy to tell people "you know, there's a word for that and it's not what you're using" because I'm always afraid that it will sound like I'm invalidating them. And there are probably even more reasons than I thought of for enbies to identify as gay or straight even when knowing about androphile and gynophile. It's just a really fascinating topic to me because I myself have trouble even thinking in binary terms.

To me gender and sexuality are both big clouds of fluid goo and there are no real borders between different parts by which to keep individual definitions seperate. I envy people who can point out exactly what they are and who they like in all this mess... at least sometimes. I still don't know my own gender. But I'm not really interested in having one. I just know I'm not part of the binary construct so I identify as an enby. But beyond that it's all just vague smoke. Same goes for my sexual and romantic orientation - all I can do is gesture at the whole cloud, shrug, and say "basically... that" (hence my identifying as pan).

You're welcome. Fair enough. You do you.

Ohhhhhh, but not girls? also, i made my rocket league flag a rainbow

Yup. And that's nice :D

Nice! I'm glad you found out.

Thank you for your assistance ^u^

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No problem!

So far, my college friends are very acceptive of me.

That's great!

They're really proud that I was figuring myself out ^u^

I searched amazing and got this image, so here!

AMAZING!

I'm very glad that you found out!

Thank you ^u^

rad bro

Thanks bro