Help me

Maybe write a letter/note. Or, if you're really comfortable tell them in person? I don't really have much advice because I haven't come out, yet. Also, I think I might be bi ? Idk... I'm confused... still identify as lesbo tho, hah.

Anyways. This isn't supposed to be about me,lol.
I say go for it, but if your family is homophobic or transphobic, anything like that, remember. You don't have to come out.

Good luck <3

Thank you <3

You have a new follower

Thanks!

Depends on what ur coming out as. I have... creative ways.

For example: I’m asexual biromantic so this is what I’m going to use for my mom when I’m ready.

*starts playing bye bye bye by the backstreet boys*

Eventually I’ll start singing and sing “Ain’t no lie, Mom I’m bi bi bi, biromantic!” (You could substitute bisexual for that as well)
Then I’ll say “I have another ace up my sleeve” and I’ll pull an ace card out of my sleeve and stick the tape part to my forehead so it reads “I’m asexual!”

This is how my brain works idk why I’m like this lol

LMFAOOOOOOOO

What I did was break down in front of my mom from the stress and told her to tell my dad. Please don’t take my advice. To me, coming out was an horrible experience because I did it completely wrong. I hope you do it better. Good luck!

Thx <3

Well, How much do they love you?

If they love you so much, You can go all out with honesty, You have to make them sure that you'll still be the same nice guy that they love,

But here's an advice, Ask them Non-Direct questions about LGBT, If they don't have hateful thoughts, The odds are pretty good.

Well, I don’t know if I can give any advice because I am still currently a closet Panromantic. But I will say this, if your family truly loves you, They won’t care what gender or sexuality you are. If they don’t accept you, its their loss for not supporting a wonderful person that just wants to be who they truly are.

To "come out", I intend to first discover who I am.
If I was non-binary, I would first talk about scripting video games.
Then I'd switch to 8-bit and speak of binary code.
And I'd subtly say "I am not part of the crowd." referring to binary code.
"I am non-binary." I'd then say, officially having said it.
As transgender, I'd hint about science, because scientist is my career plan, and how females are born with two X chromosomes, and then switch to surgery, slowly inching towards trans surgery, and then officially declare that I am transgender.
There's also the chance I just have low self-esteem.
I really hope that can be fixed without becoming egotistical if I'm a cishet with low self-esteem.

yaaaas, and why am i the only one that gave this a upvote!!!! THIS IS AMAZING!!!! and btw, i wish i were u, i am NOT confident enough to tell my family i'm trans and bisexual, my whole family is homophobic, except for i think my dad. But you work it!! <3

Awwwwweeeee thx <3

no problem :3

You have a new follower <3

oh, dank you :3 so does u. (ps don't read the memes, i don't ever post good things)

Lol

I would gauge their opinion on LGBTQ persons. If they say derogatory things, I would polity laugh along and never tell them. If they show support, I would tell them the truth. In all honesty the second option is more painful.

Ur nails as the flag

Or parade around the room with a flag

To "come out", I intend to first discover who I am.
If I was non-binary, I would first talk about scripting video games.
Then I'd switch to 8-bit and speak of binary code.
And I'd subtly say "I am not part of the crowd." referring to binary code.
"I am non-binary." I'd then say, officially having said it.
As transgender, I'd hint about science, because scientist is my career plan, and how females are born with two X chromosomes, and then switch to surgery, slowly inching towards trans surgery, and then officially declare that I am transgender.
There's also the chance I just have low self-esteem.
I really hope that can be fixed without becoming egotistical if I'm a cishet with low self-esteem.
How does this apply to you, you ask? Well, it doesn't, since you are pangender and pansexual.
But I hope I could help.

<3 (=