Been there... I'm still not entirely sure about my gender. Just take your time. You don't have to come up with an answer immediately. And the fact that you're questioning at all already means you've put a lot more effort in than the majority of the population. Most people think they have to stick with one definition. But sexuality and gender can change over time. If there's anything you wanna try out (as in pronouns for example) or ask us, that's what this stream is for. 😉