So first today my friend that i freaking met like 2-3 days ago saw a sticker on my sketchbook that said "they" with a frog and the non-binary flag, they asked "they/them pronouns?" I said yea then they said "ok,cool" completly f*cking fine with it, wich is awesome. And I was feeling good, no wanting to die...then I got home and my mom gave me some money to get some stuff from the store across the street. So I rode my bike there, saw a new born baby sized freaking crow raven thing and thought wtf.and as I was about to check out at the self checkout, all of them were full so the lady at the register said "I'll take you here, ma'am" so I felt a little depressed. Then I was like "tropical smoothie is across the way, I'll get something there to cheer me up!" So I go over, they had a sign that said "mask required, snorkel optional" wich was funny so it cheered me up a little. And I ordered, made 2 mistakes while ordering. Then the person that was a pretty cute girl wich might of had something to do with me messing up sooo freaking badly, asked me my name cause they say it when your order is done. I hesitated, was ABOUT to say Rei.....but I SAID MY FREAKING BIRTH NAME!! My brain was like "JUST SAY REI, JUST SAY REI, JUST SAY REI" and I was so used to ordering stuff with my family that dosnt know I'm non-binary, I said my birth name out of habit... So that happened