Women always say that the reason they are single is because men lie and pretend to be prince charming. They never take the blame for failing to meet they're end of the deal by admitting expectations were set to high. Men say they are single because women cant handle them or they were cheated on , used for money and stability, amongst other things. Men also fail to take the blame for expecting to much from one person and not having an open mind to something new. There may be many obstacles you will face while searching for Mr. / Mrs. Right. But don't let there me to many. Have an open mind when searching. Be willing to try new things. Step out of you're comfort zone and see what's out there. Life is full of surprises , we shouldn't be alone because we couldn't find exactly what we envision in our minds. Let it be unexpected, that's when you will find the entire time you struggled meeting those expectations of what he or she should be, was pointless. Don't waste time when you could broaden you're horizons. We always forget that the world is bigger then what we see off in the distance. Stop expecting, and see where it takes you, you might end up surprised.