u do know ppl can say things out of anger, right? & especially on here, there are some ppl that r just hard 2 reason w/. some may keep going on in a conversation until they blow up. (i personally don't. if i c someone is going 2 just live in ad hominem abusive world & not in fact world then i'll just stop participating in the conversation. b/c i've been in some dumb conversations on here b4.) but then i'm not every prsn out there. i've known ppl that said "i wish you were the dead kid" to their child, & i've been told plenty of mean things by my mother b4. just b/c something is said once doesn't mean that it was meant.
plus idk if saying it's a mental illness is homophobic. i personally believe it's wrong, & it won't help convince anyone, but homophobic means u don't like ppl just b/c they're homosexual, which u don't have 2 b in order 2 say things like that.