I always consider being smart a great strength. I certainly couldn't be with someone who hides their intellect to seem more attractive. I mean, in general I couldn't be with someone who hides any of their features to seem more attractive, but the brain is probably the most important one. I think it is best to be about equally intelligent, but in different fields. That way you can learn from each other and it never gets boring. I imagine it's very depressing to never be "the smart one" in any field and i definitely know it's very unsatisfying to always be "the smart one" in everything. That's not a relationship among equals, that's a parent-child-relationship... I know that sounds arrogant but superiority always sounds arrogant when seen from below. 😅🙈 Yes, I'm an asshole... 🙈🙈