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Blank White Template | SO I HAVE A SERIOUS QUESTION; I HAVE A MAJOR CRUSH ON SOMEONE. THEY TOLD ME THAT WHEN PEOPLE BRING UP GENDER THEY GET REALLY UNCOMFORTABLE, AND SOMETIMES THEY WEAR MALE CLOTHING AND GO BY OSCAR. THEY AREN'T SURE IF THEY ARE TRANSGENDER OR NON BINARY YET, SO THEY ONLY EVER TALK TO ME ABOUT IT. I'M STILL GOING TO LOVE THEM NO MATTER WHAT THEY IDENTITY AS, SO MY QUESTION IS IF THEY EVENTUALLY COME OUT AS TRANSGENDER OR NON BINARY WILL THAT MAKE ME PANSEXUAL? | image tagged in lgbtq,lgbt,serious question,non binary,transgender,pansexual | made w/ Imgflip meme maker
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You can identify as whatever you would like. There are many sexualities that love non-binary people. Starting off, trans👏 men👏 are👏 men👏, not a separate gender, so keep that in mind. If they do come out as trans, non-binary, genderfluid, or whatever and you still love them, there are possible sexualities you could identify as, such as

Polysexual (three or more genders but not all) (ex. All genders except for girls)

Pansexual (genderblind)

Omnisexual (all genders, not genderblind)

Bisexual (two or more genders)

Also, your sexuality doesn't change based on who you are with. If you are bisexual now, then sometimes people are bi and like nonbinary people too. But if you feel that you are genderblind, then you could identify as pan. If you feel like you love all genders, you could identify as omni. If you feel like you love many genders, you could identify as poly. But also you can identify as bi because these all are under the "more than one gender" umbrella. Whatever makes you comfortable.

And feel free to do research or ask me any questions you have!
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Thank you that really helps
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1 up, 4y
I'm happy to help!
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If you're still attracted to them no matter what, then yes, that would make you pan or poly.
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Okay thanks
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Happy to help :)
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Let me just say one thing: Them coming out as trans doesn't make you anything. You already like them, right? Whatever gender they will turn out to be. So why should anything about you change once they come out? Now, if it were me I would probably call that pansexual. But it's not me and I can't tell you what to feel. And not caring about one person's gender doesn't necessarily mean you are generally genderblind. It could, but that's for you to find out. Rory already listed a few possibilities of other orientations, so I won't bore you with that again. Just see what feels right for you. And just remember, attraction towards one person - whatever their gender might be - does not change you. Just like a guy is not automatically gay once he kissed a person who then comes out as a trans boy. So, just sleep on it a bit and feel inside you, try out a few definitions and see if that's you regardless of your crush. And other than that, don't let any definition stand in your way. I'm sure they will be completely ok with you saying "I'm not sure what I am yet, but I like you and I'd love nothing more than for us to find out together." Best wishes for you both! ♥️
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1 up, 4y
Thank you that makes a lot of sense
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Pansexual like people for who they are so... Ig
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Okay thanks
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No problem!
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they might be gender fluid
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I know, I forgot to put that in sorry
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SO I HAVE A SERIOUS QUESTION; I HAVE A MAJOR CRUSH ON SOMEONE. THEY TOLD ME THAT WHEN PEOPLE BRING UP GENDER THEY GET REALLY UNCOMFORTABLE, AND SOMETIMES THEY WEAR MALE CLOTHING AND GO BY OSCAR. THEY AREN'T SURE IF THEY ARE TRANSGENDER OR NON BINARY YET, SO THEY ONLY EVER TALK TO ME ABOUT IT. I'M STILL GOING TO LOVE THEM NO MATTER WHAT THEY IDENTITY AS, SO MY QUESTION IS IF THEY EVENTUALLY COME OUT AS TRANSGENDER OR NON BINARY WILL THAT MAKE ME PANSEXUAL?