Yeah! And I know you don't, but please help your friends.
NEVER say things in a note, text, whatever, be in person. It may be hard, but you need to be brave. And no matter how much you want to back her off ofmr cut her out whime she's venting, just listen to her, comfort her. Don't bother offering advice, you just need to be there for her and let her know that.
You don't need to be the hero. You just need to be there.
Don't try to rush everything, make sure she has an idea of whi you are as a person before making any moves.
Maybe drop a joke once or twice before bringing the topic of a relationship as a serious topic up. That'll determine where you stand with her.
If you get denied, as much as it hurts, don't try to win her over. Give her space. If she still tries to seek you out, let her know how you feel and why you think you can't suppress your feelings in context of friendship.
Most importantly, keep God first, and follow His leading, even if it means doing the opposite of what I just said, which I don't see happening seeing how He made us girls and guys.
If you ever need anything else, lemme know:D