Mind set? This is a FACT in the gay community. I go to comedy clubs in the belly of the BEAST, San Francisco with my boyfriend. Whenever a gay comedian comes on stage, we have a thing where we look at the time and ask, "When is he going to stop talking about d*ck and start telling jokes?" It's that bad! Hey, good for you dude. Stick to those hobbies. Don't be a s**t and use protection. Work hard and forget what mom thinks about your sexuality. Like you said yourself, you're a very interesting dude, make your mom see that. Your sexuality is not 100 percent you. Mom will come around to that small piece of you. Don't get sucked into the community or drugs and sex. Good luck bro