BEING MEAN BY TELLING PEOPLE THEY CAN'T DO WHAT THEY WANT TO IN LIFE AND/OR BY TELLING OTHER PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH AND THAT THEY NEVER WILL BE, BETTER BELIEVE THAT'S A PADDLIN'. TELLING PEOPLE TO CUT THEIR HAIR IF THEY DON'T WANT TO, THAT GETS THEM UPSET AND THEY DON'T LIKE IT. THAT'LL GET YOU A PADDLIN' ON YOUR HANDS.