Haha, it's okay, we are all like that when we start. You join the family by getting adopted or married. You also choose an imgflip age, which doesn't have to be your real age necessarily. I chose 17, and I'm only 16, but you could choose 30 and be 13. If you want to get adopted, make an image, and post it with who you are, imgflip age, gender, if you are an animal/pet or a human. Same kind of thing for getting married, but you also should include age range you are looking for and post that one in the imgship stream instead of this one. You either get shipped and then propose or just propose off of the girl getting thrown a bouquet. *just realized Idk if ur a guy or girl, sorry for assuming your gender* I hope this helps! Hit me up with any other questions!