You determined I was a phobe how exactly? Please tell me about the hatred I've shown the LGBTQ community anywhere here. If it helps you any, my uncle is gay, i had college friends who were questioning, I've been in the workplace with several bi, gay, and lesbian individuals. One of whom worked with my autistic brother and helped make his last months on earth enjoyable by opening up a theater for a autistic kids. She attended his funeral. When my very Catholic mom found out she was lesbian she said "I dont care. It takes a big heart to do the work she has with autistic kids" do you still think i'm a bigoted and uncaring phobe now? Perhaps you should get to know someone before slapping labels on them. Give them room to speak just as you guys demand a voice.