I know what that feels like completely! But also it's not just my crush, but just other friends in general. There is a kid at my school who I hate (let's call him Jo) and he always talks crap about my gay friend (let's call him Kyl) just because he's gay. I got in trouble for screaming at Jo when he was talking to some other dude shit about Kyl. Jo said that Kyl had a crush on him and deserves to go to hell. (Little does he know that I'm bi and he just very much offended me, too.) So yeah, it actually really sucks!