in trouble

Okay,so
My boyfriend and I told our close mutual friends(we were in a friend group of 4,and we told the other 2)that we're together.

Turns out:One of them had a crush one me since last spring,and really wanted to tell me,but never did.The other one said this would ruin the 4 of us as friends,and that we should break up,and pretend nothing happened.

The one that liked me became really upset,and even got sent to the nurses and went home.He asked if I'd want to date him maybe a week after I broke up with my boyfriend(he assumed it wouldn't last long),and when we saw me alone for 2 minutes when my boyfriend was grabbing his jacket,he asked if we'd broken up.The one who wanted us to break up said he would be glad if I had.

All of this,and way more happened,and I don't know what to do
But I'm defiantly not dumping him,so anything I'm open to.
I greatly appreciate that you guys listen to me shine anytime I'm stressed,thank you guys.😊

Goodness, rough week huh? I would say follow your heart. Who makes you feel most like yourself, most comfortable and at ease? Don't worry about the jealous remarks of others or let them try to determine who you should like or not. Hope you have a better week. :) hugs

Thanks,Kate

My solution would be to tell the guy that your dating that you still want to date (and to not listen to that other guy) and tell the other guy th at likes you then you should've told me in the spring and be all reassuring so hes not gotten broken hearted too badly and if the friend group doesn't work out, find friends who understand your situation

Thanks!

Your welcome happy to help!

Also thairs a stream called online therapists

Well I'm no pro with this stuff but that sounds INTENSE!