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I Need Some Help, Guys...

I Need Some Help, Guys... | Okay, guys.  I need some advice.  There's this one guy at my school that I have a huge crush on, and I decided to take it slow and become friends with him.  Cool, right?  After a while, it became super awkward and now he completely ignores me!  I believe that it's all my fault. 
 Now I want to talk to him and smooth things over, but I'm afraid to do so!  What if he refuses to talk to me? 
 What if our friendship gets worse?  What if it can't improve at all? What should I do?! | image tagged in lgbtq,advice,life problems,crush,question | made w/ Imgflip meme maker
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[deleted] M
2 ups, 4y,
2 replies
Idk what to do...I'm struggling as much as you are....
With two people.....
I have a crush on both so....Welp...
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Yeah, but I'm really in love with this guy.
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
It's the same with me with the first person though...
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Oof
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Yeah....in a way....we're even on this...
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Yep.
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
If only we could just tell those people and get it all over with but....it's not as easy at it seems to be
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Truth be told there!
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y
Aye.
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Better off than I was with a record total of 3!
[deleted] M
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Oof
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Quick response! You working in a customer service department?! 😂
[deleted] M
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Nah.
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
I was joking! lol
[deleted] M
0 ups, 4y
I didn't know tbh
1 up, 4y,
3 replies
Write it down then "accidentally" drop it where he or one of his friends can pick it up. That way you can act like you don't know he knows.
1 up, 4y
OOPS MY PAPER
[deleted]
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
I mean, not to be a stalker, but is this true?
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
No way!!!! ArfArf is terrible. I would never. Where is this. I need to correct this.
[deleted]
2 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Okay GOOD
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Yeah. I am very angery at ArfArf.
[deleted]
2 ups, 4y
Okay just had to settle that 😅
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y
That's a possible idea.
1 up, 4y,
3 replies
Cry-............ (im sorry idk)
[deleted]
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
why?
1 up, 4y
Idk
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Not your fault.
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Well I would just drop it and get over it I'm so used to being ignored. But you sound really in love with him.
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
I really am. Since I'm really in love with him, I can't simply ignore it!
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Well I shoved my own feelings down. I have no i dea what to do. Maybe write him a letter?
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
I have one prepared as a last resort.
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Well I think you should talk to him.
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
That's my Plan A. I wrote everything I want to tell him all out in a notebook. Now the problem is finding a time for the two of us to talk
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Lunch
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
That's a good idea. I also have a class with him, but it's already passed.
1 up, 4y
Oh. Well try to sit next to him at lunch.
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
I don't know if he'll let me sit with him. He's been sitting with his friends and I don't think that there's an open spot for me to sit with him.
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Well if you can't make it at lunch talk to him at his locker. Or ask him if you can talk in private. He might not want his friends to see.
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
I want to talk to him in private. That's my first plan.
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Good.
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Now I need to get some time set aside for us to talk.
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Goodluck!
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y
Thanks (I need it).
[deleted]
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Wait some time and then get him too talk too you
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
I'm doing that because I can't find a good time to talk to him.
[deleted]
1 up, 4y
keep on then
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Ooh, that sounds difficult... Why did it get awkward? Did you try to hint at being into him and he didn't like it? Because if so there's probably not a huge chance it'll work out. But either way you could just try to tell him about it and then it's his decision if he wants to give it a try, he'd rather just be friends or he can't deal with it and doesn't want to talk to you anymore. I know that last option really sucks but I would want to know either way... 😕 If you do decide to tell him, ask him if he's got a few minutes for you because you need to talk to him. It gives him a heads up that it's important to you and that it might take a few minutes. If he blocks it off there already (kinda unlikely but might happen) maybe you could write him instead.
[deleted] M
2 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Well... I said something and he took it the wrong way. I wrote everything I want to tell him all out in a notebook. Now the problem is finding a time for the two of us to talk.
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
😕 Well, I hope you find the time to tell him. Like I said, maybe you can write him if everything else fails...
[deleted] M
2 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Yeah... I'll use it as my last resort.
1 up, 4y,
2 replies
I'm hoping you'll be happy and it all works out. 😘
[deleted] M
2 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Thanks.
BTW, I wrote a letter to him in the case I have to use my last resort.
1 up, 4y,
2 replies
I think talk to him in private and then open up to him about your feelings. It's a straightforward option and if it doesn't work out, I'm sorry to hear that. Give it a shot!
- Oofingtons 😜
1 up, 4y
[deleted] M
0 ups, 4y
That is my plan, but I'm worried that it will go downwards.
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
2 replies
I delivered the letter to him.
[deleted]
1 up, 4y,
2 replies
Good job
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Currently waiting for a response from him.
[deleted]
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
may ur waitings be fast and may the answer be good
[deleted] M
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Hopefully...
[deleted]
0 ups, 4y
W I T H the power of Shiba Inu's and all things cute may luck be on your side! :D
[deleted] M
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Thanks (I need it).
[deleted]
0 ups, 4y
Welcome (Anytime)...
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
I'm proud of you. 😘
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y
Thank you. Currently waiting for a response from him. I will let you know when I get one.
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Okay, guys. I need some advice. There's this one guy at my school that I have a huge crush on, and I decided to take it slow and become friends with him. Cool, right? After a while, it became super awkward and now he completely ignores me! I believe that it's all my fault. Now I want to talk to him and smooth things over, but I'm afraid to do so! What if he refuses to talk to me? What if our friendship gets worse? What if it can't improve at all? What should I do?!