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Confession Bear Meme | I WAS GOING TO COME OUT TO MY PARENTS AND SAY I LIKE GIRLS TOO THIS YEAR; BUT MY DAD WAS MAKING EXTREMELY HOMOPHOBIC REMARKS ON NEWYEARS AS WE WATCHED THE COUNTDOWN | image tagged in memes,confession bear | made w/ Imgflip meme maker
539 views β€’ 21 upvotes β€’ Made by MobGoddessTsuki 4 years ago in LGBTQ
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[deleted] M
3 ups, 4y,
3 replies
What the actual f**k?! Why would your father make such remarks about the LGBTQ+ when you were moments away from coming out?!?! I am confusion!
2 ups, 4y,
1 reply
I have no idea. Lets just say I'm gonna stay in the closet this year.
[deleted] M
3 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Just come out to us! Don't let your dad know, okay? ;)
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Not to mention I recently found out I also like trans people...... which is new.
[deleted] M
2 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Really? That's cool.
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
So um. That's happening now.
[deleted] M
2 ups, 4y,
2 replies
There's no term for that currently (I looked it up), but it's been a big topic of research in scientific studies recently.
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
My parents are transphobic.
[deleted] M
2 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Well, what the f**k?! What's wrong with transgender people?
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Idk.
[deleted] M
2 ups, 4y
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
What about pan? πŸ’β€β™€οΈ
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Maybe.
0 ups, 4y
Well, I consider myself pansexual because I apparently don't care about gender. Different people use it in different ways. One of them is to stress the fact that they're attracted to not only men and women but more than two genders and that isn't really coming through in the word bisexual. Others use it to mean they are attracted more to the person than their gender aka being "genderblind". It might also depend on if you view trans people as a different gender, which kinda depends on what kind of trans we're talking about imo. To me, an ftm trans is a man and an mtf trans is a woman, so I wouldn't consider them seperate genders. But there are definitely other genders than just male and female and usually that already might make for example an agender person trans, because they were born with certain sexual characteristics they wish they didn't have. But - like many things - the distinction if someone is trans or not, regardless of their sex and gender is not something that can be assigned from outside and depends on what the person themselves feel. That's part of the reason I consider myself pansexual - I don't need to know a person's gender to find them attractive and I simply couldn't say if there is a certain gender out there that I couldn't find attractive. Granted, in day to day life I will mostly meet men and women (trans or not) so my sample sizes are a bit asymmetrical. But I definitely feel like "bisexual" wouldn't describe me well enough even though most people would probably have less of a hard time understanding it.
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
The person is ftm and hes just so cute.
[deleted] M
2 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Noice!
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
I think I might be genderfluid......
[deleted] M
2 ups, 4y,
1 reply
So... you don't have a fixed gender?
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Yeah. I guess.
[deleted] M
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
That's okay ^u^
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
:3 I wanna cut my hair short so I dont look as girlish.
[deleted] M
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
DO IT!!!!
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Only after I dye my hair though!
[deleted] M
0 ups, 4y
Girl, I wanna dye my hair rainbow colors, but my parents won't let me.
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
My mom doesn't wanna let me because I have to get my hair bleached.
[deleted] M
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Yeah... same here...
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
:(
[deleted] M
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
:( X2
0 ups, 4y
Lol
2 ups, 4y,
2 replies
I'm so sorry that is really hard I support you and hope it gets better. Btw homopobes rly piss me off like listen love is love
2 ups, 4y,
1 reply
I'm lesbian I think but personally I think I don't know
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
I'm questioning. I kinda also just found out I'm genderfluid. Both my parents are transphobic.
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
I'm so sorry that's hard but sometimes acceptance is hard so just see what you can do to slowly change their minds
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Hah. If I'm stubborn then my parents are as unmoving as rocks.
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Just be who you want to be then don't let them change it and try not to be suicidal
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
They can't change anything. I just won't tell them.
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
True
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
How ever much they try, I am still me and I have control over myself, my thoughts, and my body.
1 up, 4y
Exactly 😊
[deleted] M
0 ups, 4y
True that!
1 up, 4y,
2 replies
I am very sorry for that. I hope you'll be able to get out of that situation soon. I know what it's like to be unable to be yourself... If there's anything at all you want to talk about, I'm here for you! β™₯️
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Me too ^-^
I'm straight but I did ask a boy out.
(rejected... 😒) I still am here for this community!
- Oofingtons 😜
0 ups, 4y
I don't think you need to be lgbtq+ to support people who are. I'm not a woman, but I still support women's rights. I'm not a cow, I'm still against animal cruelty. I'm not trans, I still support people who are. As long as you're supportive you can stay as long as you wish.
1 up, 4y,
1 reply
Thanks.
1 up, 4y
any time
[deleted]
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
Burn the closet! Tell your dad! If he can’t accept you for what you are then he is not fit to be a father.
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
I can't. I have to live with him.
[deleted]
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
You should tell him anyway. He needs to accept you for you. I suggest you tell your mom first, tho. If she isn’t homophobic then she might provide some support.
0 ups, 4y,
1 reply
I'd rather just keep quiet. They freaked out when they found out I was talking to a boy. Imagine how bad it would be if they found out I'm panromantic.
[deleted]
1 up, 4y
well, whatever keeps you comfortable.
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I WAS GOING TO COME OUT TO MY PARENTS AND SAY I LIKE GIRLS TOO THIS YEAR; BUT MY DAD WAS MAKING EXTREMELY HOMOPHOBIC REMARKS ON NEWYEARS AS WE WATCHED THE COUNTDOWN