When my pan friend is talking but I dont realize its about sexuality cuz im a dumb ace

Yeah, I think in general pans will never understand aces and vice versa... I have absolutely no idea how one can not constantly think about sleeping with someone (or sometwo or some more for that matter)... What's that like? 🙈 And I know the answer already: "It just is." But keep in mind neither of us is wrong - just different.

yeah, were like that sometimes.Shes okay with me and im okay with her.We do understand each other thoughts just that im dumb.

I wouldn't call that dumb... your brain just works differently 😉

haha,thanks!

asexual - shortened to "ace" - a person who doesn't feel any desire to have sex. Of course, as any label this is a spectrum as well and there are aces who don't like sex but are ok with it sometimes, some who only have sex with a person they are really, really close to, some don't have sex at all, even hate it, but love cuddling, some don't want any physical contact at all...

erm am i a pan if im panromantic ?

Well... yeah, I guess. Sexual and romantic orientation is not the same, of course, but pan can be the abbreviation for both pansexual and panromantic. Since I'm both I don't need to make that distinction, but if it matters in your case I'd be more specific to avoid confusion.

thanks! i'll shorten it to panro

It's pan just bi

huh?

Isn't I mean

Oh!Well,no,not really.Pan is they are attracted to the person as they are and bi is they are attracted to girls and guys.

Ah ok