Dear parents whom adopted me and literally saved me from dying from cancer and Pneumonia,

I'm adopted too. I'm sorry if you're having a rough time.

Oh wow! What’s your story? My birth parents were/still are horrible criminals so that is why me and my three other true siblings had to be taken away from them. I wish me and my true siblings stayed together though.....the family I live with now is still my family (step family I guess you could say) but there is not nor ever will be that “true love bond” that actual true families share and I will forever miss that deeply.

Wow, that's really tough. You must really miss your birth family. I was born in Honduras and separated from my mom when I was one. Spent a few years in am orphanage before I was adopted and came to the USA. I grew up in a good family but I still wonder about my birth parents and siblings (not sure if I have any) I hope someday you can be reunited with your siblings. How long have you been with your "step family" it can take a long time to learn to live like a family.

I really do. I have this “true mother” in a lot of my dreams and I wonder if it is somehow my birth mother telekinetically telling/coming to me saying that she loves me very deeply. If it is not my birth mother then I wonder whom it is.

Oh I’ve been to Honduras! Lovely place! Why were you separated from her?

Oh I sure wish! Oh I sure hope so!

Ever since I just turned three but unfortunately they (also ever since then) have not treated me nowhere near as kindly as one of their own. I mean, I have all of the necessities to stay alive/live a good life but other than that.....well you get the idea.

I'm sure if your birth mother could speak to you she would tell you she indeed loves you very much. She gave you and your siblings life after all even if she was unable to properly care for you. She thinks of you every day. Do you live near Honduras? I never quite felt like I fit in on account of being hispanic and Spanish speaking adopted by a white English speaking American family. They adopted a boy a year younger than I not my blood brother but we became best friends. (But he passed away unexpectedly 2 years ago) But they love me and provided the best they could. Of course no family is ever meant to be separated especially at a young age. I guess sometimes you just have to find the good in a situation. It helps get you through it.

Where do you live now? If you don't mind my asking?

Feel free to ask me anything! I have only ever met maybe 2 people in my life who've been adopted so it's nice to have someone who understands.

I highly doubt that since she and her husband apparently did lots of drugs and it is said that they abused their kids.

No, I live in Houston TX.

Interesting and I’m terribly sorry to hear that your little step-brother passed away.
I also feel that I myself don’t fit in where I live because I come from way up north in Russia even though my DNA is literally from ALL the eastern side of Europe.

Exactly.

Same here.

I'm sorry to hear that. I have family members with addiction problems too. It's a shame it has to tear families and loved ones apart and make them do crazy things.

I think my birth mom abused me too. I have a scar on my face from when she burned me (at only one years old, who does that to a baby? ) but I've also been told she wanted to give me a better life but couldn't on account of being so poor and probably unmarried.

Wow that's a long way to travel from. My dad has been in Russia. Do you remember anything from your birthplace? I do.

That's crazy, I live in Houston too. But I grew up in the north part of the country. I'm not a fan of the city. But here I am.

IKR!? I hate drugs and alcohol!

I was stabbed in my right shoulder with a long thin poker of some type when I was a baby also.

That it basically looked like a medieval town.....like really super poor people lived there. You?

Ok that’s neat! Oh I ABHOR this city! NOTHING exciting and fun to do here unlike Los Angeles California......

Ugh. I can't imagine harming a baby like that. I guess it's good we don't remember the events but we still have the scars.

I remember it being very poor and hot and wild starving looking dogs running around ready to eat me. So when I arrived at my new family's house and they had pet dogs I climbed on their sofa and refused to come down I was so afraid, lol. But now I love dogs.

It does take some effort to find things to do here. But there's nice parks and museums. I just hate the traffic though, it's insane! I guess I'm blessed to have a good church to attend and we've made friends here. But I want to move back north as soon as I'm able. I've never been to California, not sure I want to live there either.

Exactly! Unless your step-parents tell you what your birth parents did to you. -_-

Oh wow! Same type of thing here! Whenever I saw a cat or a dog I would scream. I love cats and dogs now.

And the parks and museums are the ONLY things to do here! Ugh! Wish it had more to do.....

The insane religiousness and republicaness of the people in this city is one of the things I abhor about this city. I mean, I don’t care what religion or political side everyone follows but when 3,000+ of these people whom I have to live around do evil/wrong doings unto me because I am not exactly like them that’s when I will start having problems with you/them.
Unfortunately for me, Everyone that I have met in real life whom live in this city as well whom believes in god (mind you not the simple “oh I believe that god exists but I don’t worship/follow him” type of people. Agnostics I think they are called) but the ones whom worship him, no matter how strictly, have been complete d***’s unto me just because I’m not a Christian and a republican but a spiritual theistic satanist and a democrat instead.
Like WTF?? I’m not doing a go***mn thing unto you, why do you all have to be so rude mean unto me just because I’m not exactly like you!? Holy c***!! -_-

Just a thought, you can take it or leave it. What do you think of starting a stream for adoption? Like those who are adopted or want to adopt. It would be nice to find others here who know the ups and downs of that experience.

Stream?

So you notice you can follow a stream and post memes like the memes_overload stream you posted this in? Well anyone can make their own stream on any topic they like. I've made a few myself. So maybe we can start a stream and get people together to meme about what adoption is like.

Oh.....I don’t know how to make one though.....

I'll see what I can do and send you a link! :)

Ok

How have you been? Haven't heard from you in awhile.