Ooof well is neither a choice.... I guess the first one.... I mean it would he sad, but at least you'd get a chance to be real with someone, actually feel love...IDK for me.... I mean a similar situation occurred, but with a friend..... And we don't talk anymore, and I actually had myself convinced for a while that I loved them because I thought about them every night, and how much I would love to tell them, but I never did and like I said we don't talk anymore.... But I still think about thek, all the time.... IDK ignore me lol