IN A UNION WHEN ONE IS WORKING THE OTHER HAVE LIMITED RESOURCES YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER.IF ONE IS LACKING THE OTHER HELPS .ONE SHOULD AT LEAST SUPPORT THEIR PARTICIPATION IN THE HOUSEHOLD; IT IS NOT FOR THE ONE THAT IS WORKING TO STEAL AND LIE ABOUT FINANCES SO THEIR NON WORKING PARTNER IS FORCED BY TRICKERY TO PROVIDE FOR YOUR FAMILY LOVERS FRIENDS AND OTHERS. THEN OSTRACIZE INSULT AND ABUSE THEM WHEN THEY REFUSE AFTER FINDING THE TRUTH.