How to Be Miserable 101
Surround yourself with only people who make you feel good about yourself. When someone hurts your feelings, delete them. If they say you're wrong, leave them in the dust. When someone tells you "no" or stands up to you, spite them, then never speak to them again. In other words, surround yourself with only people who do not care enough to hold you accountable for your actions, encourage you to take responsibility, establish boundaries, encourage you to mature. You will continue to view yourself as a powerless victim. You will not grow. You will continue to make the same mistakes, wondering why you're not getting different results.