YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN TO PEOPLE FOR AS FAR BACK AS YOU CAN REMEMBER WHEN REALIZATION KICKS IN AND YOU REALIZE THAT YOU HAVE BEEN SO BUSY BEING THERE FOR EVERYONE ELSE AND TAKING CARE OF EVERYONE ELSE THAT YOU FORGOT ABOUT YOURSELF AND NOW YOU NEED SOMEONE,ANYONE,AND ALL THOSE YOU HAVE BEEN THERE FOR AND BENT OVER BACKWARDS FOR ARE NOT THERE FOR YOU. IT IS THEN YOU REALIZE JUST HOW "USED" YOU WERE/ARE.