This is sadly part of my job now.

My husband out of the army now, still having to do the gender classes at his DOD job

In my civilian occupation (teacher) we have to ask before we address the students so we don't offend them. I work in juvenile justice with the bad boys. It is actually funny to see the reaction when I ask what pronoun they prefer.

Lmao yeah I bet their reaction is priceless! Now that you need to do a meme about also.