Stupid Sarah

My cousin likes to tell me she wants to learn to maintain her car, till we get it into my shop and I end up doing all the work, and she drinks my beer and her dog pees on my truck outside.

been seeing this chic about 3 months, never been intimate. ive mowed her grass 4 times, fixed her brakes (disc pads and rebuilt drums) and fixed her garage door. i feel like a sucker

Oooooooooh, ouch. I can't really say either or, cuz I don't personally know either of you, that being said, in my experiences,....... f**k, tough call, lotsa questions,......shit, welll, how do you feel, sometimes you havta make a leap and try something dangerous, one of those grande gesture thingys. I know life aint like a rom-com, but isn't it? I bin on both sides bud so I feel for ya. You don't get to be mid 40's without a few battle wounds. Best of luck, and I'll support the best I can.

i went out of my way, to be a good guy helping a single mom. and well ok, to get brownie points with her i guess. anyway im was always on whatever she needed pronto. recently she started giving me the wait 6,7 or 8 hours to respond to a text....so i got the hint :(...

but she was using me and borderline emotional abuse. i dumped her!

Sorry to hear that bud. I know the feels. I've helped women move, fix stuff, etc. What can you do? Eventually you will find one willing to reciprocate. I've even missed a few hints and realised too late, so theres that too. Just dont be a door mat.

they are a different species. I too have missed hints. sucks, huh? only to bang your head against the wall later!7

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Stupid Sarah won't put out because she doesn't want you to see her p**is.

and who said anything about putting out? im 48 and old fashioned. i respect a girl that waits. not looking to catch any whorish diseases from a floozy

I was making fun of the meme picture itself really (I submitted that meme a couple of months ago). The "woman" in the photo is clearly a man (possibly male to female transsexual or just a transvestite) but people use that meme all the time to gripe about feminist women. An SJW is a "social justice warrior" and an MTF is a male-to-female transsexual.
I made the joke about putting out because you said Stupid Sarah was using you for months and you had never been intimate. You then listed the chores you did for her and lamented that you felt like a sucker. If you weren't expecting to be intimate with her, why be hurt that you did some work for her? You were being a decent guy. In what ways did you want her to reciprocate for all the work you did for her? Did she at least say "thank you" or provide dinner, or do something to show her gratitude? I'm 52 and old-fashioned as well, but every time I've ever heard a man complain about bending over backwards for a woman it's because she didn't give him "any" to show her gratitude. I guess I'm not clear on what you expected from SS.

No, your correct. And she did reciprocate by giving me a few job leads that turned into work. I think i was upset because she ignores my texts at times, which is ok...i can take a hint! She's not the only egg in my basket. ;) And I'm 48, but still yound at heart.