I'm a freedom of expression extremist. But freedom of expression means you may express it, not that you can express it then expect others not to express their differences in return. If you 'act'/express like a homophobe then if I call you on the carpet for talking shit that's just me expressing myself, and if you skulk off acting offended, well that your bloody problem, and I didn't oppress/offend you in any way except in your mind.