Wow, that doesn't sound too pleasant either ... I heard that chemo improved drastically in the past 10 years. I guess it depends what kind of cancer one has and where.
My aunt had breast cancer. After the operation, the little bastard migrated to her liver. There she received chemo but had horibble side effects with her hair falling out. That was in the mid-nineties though.
Do you take pills for your chemo or do they inject you with something?